We Need Messy Churches: The son of a gay dad and lesbian mom on how to think about LGBT people at ou
"Christian leaders need to get to know and build relationships with those in their congregation who identify as LGBT. Spend time with a lesbian couple, get to know a gay man, ask questions of the LGBT people who don’t attend your church.
Listen to people. Hear their stories. Each person is a mosaic of experiences, hurts, joys, upbringing, beliefs, and more. Let me say it another way — treat people like people, not like evangelistic projects. So, get to know them."