We Need Messy Churches: The son of a gay dad and lesbian mom on how to think about LGBT people at ou
"Christian leaders need to get to know and build relationships with those in their congregation who identify as LGBT. Spend time with a...
Men Crave Intimate Friendships, Too
"I've often said that I think the need for meaningful friendship is just as crucial for men, and probably even more important for us to...
Being Single Is Hard
"I think it makes us uncomfortable to admit our interdependence. No one ever says to single people “it may be worth being single for a...
Guidance for Churches on Membership, Baptism, Communion, Leadership, and Service for Gay and Lesbian
"There is perhaps no question more central to the human heart than this: Can I belong? We are made for communion with God and others. We...
How Churches Can Better Support LGBT+ Christians
"It continues to amaze me how hard celibate lgbt+ people have to work to find space in churches that claim a more traditional sexual...